Akien MacIain, Secret Agent Of Happiness (akienm) wrote in lifeaffirmation,
Akien MacIain, Secret Agent Of Happiness
akienm
lifeaffirmation

An affirmation for me...

New Affirmation: I am physically expressive in ways that delight me and those around me

In coversation with one of my loves, I found this belief:

It's horrifically dangerous to be physically expressive because you will be teased in cruel and painful ways

So, I turn that around into the new affirmation: I am physically expressive in ways that delight me and those around me


Chat log...
klrmn: wow - 'adrenaline is dangerous' is deeply patterned in my mind
akienm: I've noticed that
akienm: I don't have that, but I have something closely related: don't be physically expressive because you will be teased in cruel and painful ways
akienm: I love that you could go looking in your mind and see that
klrmn: thank you
klrmn: hmmm. is physically expressive what [namehidden] was doing when you got triggered?
akienm: (nod)
klrmn: you enjoy being physically expressive in private
akienm: yes
akienm: when I am certain the person is attached enough to me that I won't get teased in a hurtful way
akienm: I am so going to post this in my LJ
klrmn: but a lot of the things you do in private are also too strong to use in public
akienm: yes
akienm: when I was small, I was very physically expressive
akienm: often getting wound up like Allegra does
klrmn: you need to add more settings to your physical expressiveness volume knob
akienm: yes
akienm: are you ok with me posting your words
klrmn: sure
akienm: and do I need to hide your ID?
klrmn: no
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